In the first part of the talk I will review the scenarios proposed by Hubeny and Jacobson-Sotiriou that suggest that a near-extremal black hole can be turned into a naked singularity by absorbing a particle. In the Hubeny case, the black hole is charged, and it absorbs a particle with sufficient charge to produce an overcharged final state. In the Jacobson-Sotiriou case, the black hole is spinning, and it absorbs a particle with sufficient angular momentum to produce an overspinning state. I will explain why such scenarios violate the third law of black-hole mechanics (although there may be a loophole), and seek a mechanism that prevents such overcharged or overspinning final states. I will argue that self-force effects on the particle could provide this mechanism, and describe earlier partial attempts to incorporate the self-force into the scenarios. In the second part of the talk I will describe ongoing work with Peter Zimmerman on the formulation of the self-force when the background metric is not a solution to the vacuum field equations (which is the case when the background spacetime describes a charged black hole).